For the past six months I've been dealing with what I call "the Knot" based on the Gordian Knot . It's a set of... problems, I suppose which I don't feel I have an answer to and occasionally seem big and intimidating they feel overwhelming. I know that a large part of the situation boils down to waiting, something I'm not very good at, and at planning out what I want in sensible steps, which I'm also a bit crap at. The waiting part comes down to the house I shared with my ex-wife and the fact that it seems to be taking so long for her to get it onto the market. I have to remind myself that she's got an immune disorder and is very busy at work... but at the same time I find myself thinking that cliché "if she wanted to she would" and the situation is frustrating because it makes me feel like I'm stuck in limbo, and unable to do anything. This waiting and frustration is in many ways the foundation of the Knot - the first strands if you l...